I remember a few years back when an internet friend of mine was doing an academic study of his own. He came to a couple of forums that I frequented and he didn't, looking for the same style of information. He was met with the same type of distrust that you are experiencing now BennettOZ until I vouched for him. Be patient, some of us have seen anti-gun operatives come to forum with seemingly innocent questions and have it turn into a huge blow up.
Guys, he was absolutely forthcoming with who he is and why he's here as far as I can tell, let's give him a little latitude and at the least be friendly.
Name: M Sample
Location: Padua IL
Level of experience: I try to not label myself
Years dealing with guns: 39
Optional information:
Occupation: Self-employed
Sex: M
Age: 44
Weapons owned: Too many to list and wouldn't on an internet forum anyway.
My children, ages 16 (b) and 11 (g), have been around guns every minute of their lives. When younger they never picked up a gun or gave a gun a second look without permission.
Now they have their own to use at their discretion as well as mine. EVERY time they pick up a gun, they check the safety then make sure the chamber is empty.
They both know how to load, unload, fire, and strip down every firearm I own, they do the cleaning of said firearms. There is no "mystery" for them.
Irresponsible behavior has never been an issue because they know what a firearm can do. They have been going hunting and target shooting with me since they could walk. They have seen animals harvested and miscellaneous objects 'blown up". A can of green beans shot at close range with a high velocity center-fire leaves quite an impression as to the power involved.
Jared, a little tip for you, don't go into a firearms forum and quote the Brady Campaign, it won't open any doors for you and several forums I know of would have immediately banned a newbie speaking relatively kndly of them.