XD is a fine pistol. I would choose the 5" if I wasn't planning to carry. Recoil from a .45 isn't that bad. You will need to practice quite a bit to become proficient with any handgun.
If it is a matter of home defense weapon, a shotgun is a viable choice. Forget the birdshot unless you plan on being attacked by birds.
I personally reach for my 1911 when something goes bump in the night.
If it is a matter of home defense weapon, a shotgun is a viable choice. Forget the birdshot unless you plan on being attacked by birds.
I personally reach for my 1911 when something goes bump in the night.